Not all of us are solo travellers. And that´s okay.
Of course, solo travel can be extremely rewarding, but travelling with a friend, family member, or partner can make all the difference between having a good time and having a great time.
The benefits of travelling with a partner are many:sharing pricey meals, feeding off each other´s energy, having a safety buddy and countless others.
BUT having great adventures together also depends on how well you and your travel comrade jell. I mean what´s the point of backpacking through Germany with your high school buddy if they´re slowing you down and killing that exciting travel vibe?
So, to help you find the perfect partner, I´ve created a list of the most important qualities to look for in a potential fellow globetrotter:
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Patient – Because not every situation can be decided in a matter of minutes.
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Flexible – Plans don´t always work the way you want them to. When this happens you need someon flexible on your side.
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Street smart – Because what´s worse than travelling with someone who gets you two conned into paying over-priced tour fares?
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Open-minded – Travelling authentically requires a non-judgmental and accepting mindset.
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Curious – Someone who is curious is going to be enthusiastic and passionate about discovering a new culture.
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Resourceful – As a back-packer this is almost the number one important quality. Travelling with a wasteful or careless partner is a recipe for disaster.
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Dependable – Because nothing´s worse than finding out last-minute that they forgot to print those ever so vital bus tickets.
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Cooperative – Working together gets the best results. Plus you´ll have someone to help plan activities and navigate.
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Independent – You won´t always want to do the same thing. Travelling with someone who doesn´t mind splitting off for half the day to do your own thing is a win-win situation.
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Calm – Travelling can be stressful. Very stressful. But having a calm companion by your side can help dissipate those `head is whirling´-type situations.
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Willing to compromise – Because where´s the fun in travelling with someone who only wants to do things their own way?
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Daring – To travel is to try new things. To try new things is to go out of one´s comfort zone. Someone who is daring will be able to make the most of new experiences and challenges.
So what do you think is important in a travel partner?
The post is spot on. I travelled for 9 months with my partner and although we had our moments, I couldn’t have done it without him! I would say make sure you both know what to expect and what the other is expecting before setting off – and have fun!
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Oh yes thats a good one as well – setting expectations. Sounds like you two have the perfect dynamic 🙂
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Yes those are good qualities. I would add fun.
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Totally agree Anisa! Thanks for stopping by
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I love this post!! I can totally relate! I consider myself very lucky since I have friends which are also perfect travel partners 🙂
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That is lucky indeed! Nothing better than having good friends to travel with 🙂
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Yes, I agree 🙂
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I’d say my travel partner has to be spontaneous and willing to go on adventures with me. If we get lost, they take it as a positive experience rather than stress out about it. x
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That´s a good one! Someone who looks for the best in every situation. Thanks for reading 🙂
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All those points aren’t only important for travels but in life general! Great post!
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That´s a really good point 🙂 thanks for reading x
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Nice post ! Glad I stopped by 😉
May I reblog it?
Sabrina 🌻🍍🍒
http://www.OrganicIsBeautiful.com
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You´re absolutely welcome to, my dear! Thanks for reading x
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That´s a lovely list! I agree with each and every point of you. Although I don´t think a perfect person who has all these qualities is neccessary for an amazing adventure. Of course all of them are very important points and qualities, I find that with a person whom you can talk to openly about everything is really all you need. But definitely a great list – will nevertheless keep this in mind the next time I´m looking for a travel partner:-)
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That is a fantastic point, sometimes imperfection can be just as beautiful 🙂 thanks for your trully insightful comment x
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Hi Lara! I hope you’ll be pleased to know that since I really liked this post I cited it here: http://www.fromdreamtoplan.net/2016/09/01/solo-vs-non-solo-travelling/ 🙂
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Hi Lisa! That´s very sweet, I´m honoured 🙂 happy travels x
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